Catharsis is not the same as integration

Catharsis is not the same as integration.In shadow work and deep emotional–somatic practice, these two are often conflated. But something essential depends on our ability to tell them apart—not in theory, but in the fire …

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On Grief

For sensitive, empathic, relationally oriented people, grief is often learned early as something to manage quietly. Loss disrupted stability. Someone left. Something ended. Love was followed by absence.And the nervous system made an intelligent, protective …

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The reawakening of feeling

Most of us have one or two feeling states we will do just about anything not to feel. It might be an emptiness, a particular kind of shame, heartbreak, a sense of abandonment, or the …

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Live online gathering with Matt – January 29

Dear friends,  I’m looking forward to connecting with everyone on Thursday, January 29, for a live online gathering.During our time together, we’ll slow down, rest our nervous systems, and explore some of the deeper mysteries …

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Top contenders clash in uefa nations league quarter finals

The Ultimate Showdown: Quarter-Finals of the UEFA Nations League Tournament The UEFA Nations League quarter-finals represent the pinnacle of European football, where elite teams battle for continental supremacy and crucial World Cup qualification advantages. With …

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The anxiety of not being “useful”

There is a way of being in the world that often looks like kindness, empathy, and attunement—even love—but at its core is something more anxious and costly.It is the compulsive need to orient toward another …

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