Held, not healed

When we meet with someone who is feeling melancholic, empty, restless, or down, we can quickly become convinced that something is wrong, and that our role is to act urgently to fix them.And to engage …

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Companions on the night sea journey

The path of the heart is not only one of transcendence – ascending and rising above – but also one of descent: into underworld, earth, and shadow, and into relationship with the figures who we …

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To remember on this Christmas day…

Sending love to my friends everywhere on this Christmas day. Thank you for sharing your sacred stories, pain, and joy with me in 2024 and for reminding me of the courage, bravery, and majesty of …

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Relational healing and the shattered heart

As relational mammals with the sort of nervous system that we’ve been crafted with and the kind of heart that we’ve been provided with, the experience of abandonment and aloneness is really the greatest type …

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Trauma and the journey home

Much of our wounding occurs prior to the acquisition of language and is not able to be healed through questioning and reorganizing patterns of thinking.We can’t think our way out of trauma, attachment, and narcissistic …

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